Do on to others as you wish done upon your self.

 

 

Do onto to others as you wish done upon your self. How often have you heard this statement,

how often have you put it into practice. So simple yet so mighty of a statement. Clear your own

path of all injustices and begin to live as the righteous man or woman does. In doing so you

take responsibility of your actions in the present moment. Change comes to those who put

forth the effort, in this case the effort is small indeed.

 

Are you  hypocritical , do you actually treat others as we wish to be treated. Then good for you,

if not you may want to look inward. By really taking the steps to live by these words we begin

to live in the moment.Everything created is created in the moment of now. Things that you

refer to as both bad and good are all created in the now.

 

As we take a moment to reflect on how we have treated people in our life time we get a real

eye opener of how we have lived our lives. Do you treat all people with respect or just those

you choose to give respect to? Does every one in your life get the same courtesy that you

reserve for loved ones or are they put to the back burner of time. The choices you make in

your life is how your life turns out. Are you part of the never ending cycle of people treating

you unfair, yet you turn around and are unfair to others and wonder why this keeps happening

to you. Accept responsibility for your self and try to live by these words and change will

happen for the bettor. Don’t just practice this for a week and forget about it but really make

the effort to change. When you slip and maybe do not treat another as you wish to be treated

do not get down on your self but stop and take a moment to understand why you did this,

take responsibility and apologize to the person if you think that is necessary or ask for there

forgiveness on a spirit level if talking to them again is not possible. We all make mistakes

we all get caught off guard or have a bad day. Practicing living in the moment is just that,

each day we practice until it is second nature. By recognizing where we may have gone

wrong and taking responsibility for it is , then 90% of the issue is solved. No need for guilt,

guilt becomes a thing of the past because we correct our mistakes as we go along. Wow a

day with out guilt now that is living in the moment. A parachute keeps you from slamming

into the ground, asking for forgiveness or saying I am sorry does the same thing.

 

Understanding how we want to be treated makes treating others with the same courtesy

or respect much easier. Have you ever taken the time to write out how you would like to

be treated by a loved one, relative, friend, coworker, boss or complete stranger?

In understanding how you would like to be treated you have a better understanding of

how you should treat others. Sounds so simple, you can almost here your Mom or Dad

telling you these golden rules from your youth, yet some how ,some where along the way

in all our busy lives this lesson seams to have fallen by the way side. How can I change

I have acted this way my whole life?  Yes I say and here is the problem, doing the

same thing over and over expecting different results is just plain crazy. "But he or she

treats me with no respect", do you give them respect ? yes then good or maybe you are in

denial. Do you give all others respect ? yes then good or maybe you’re in denial. Try to

stand in the other persons shoes,go out on a limb, try giving them respect even if they are

showing you none.You have the power to change the energy of any situation. Do not match

the negative energy, create your own positive energy . Play with this energy and have fun,

people around you will start to treat you differently as you do not engage in there negative

energy.Try to live in the moment the best you can,treating others as you wish to be treated

and you will see positive changes in your life.

 

 

With Gratitude, Ron Ray                  

 

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